71.239.72.84 | “My mother had BPD and ruined the lives of me, my brother, and my complete doormat of a father. You people are monsters and should not be in relationships with anyone, let alone having children.” |
This is a message that was sent to me from I do not know who nor do I really care. If you want to know why BPD sufferers exist this comment says it all. You tell us we are stupid, ugly, useless and then wonder why we have not an ounce of confidence. You create BPD and we suffer. I’m sure someone hurt you but that was not me. How does insulting me solve your emotional problems.
it is all someone else’s fault
May I suggest you need therapy before you have children and damage them for I am sure you will. Simply bullying a stranger will not protect your damaged soul. Oh and we are all as different as snowflakes so please do not blame all of us for your bad relationship which maybe you played a part in. I had an abusive mother but she did not have BPD. Nothing is quite that simple and I have known BPD sufferers who have been exemplary mothers.
You however, worry me. Bullies are not much good at anything until they face their own demons. I knew my limitations and gave my baby up for adoption. Painful but best for her I know. I only hope you learn yours and deal with them because if you can say what you said to me as a stranger, you need help. Good luck in finding it!
borderline personality disorder 