I have never met a BPD sufferer who has not been abused in childhood, ever!!!
So why are we always being blamed for not meeting the expectations of others?
When a woman is raped or assaulted, our society tends to ask the wrong questions. How could her behavior have been different? How could she have modified her actions and her thinking to change the outcome and prevent the assault. What was she wearing? Was she drinking? Did she know the kind of place she was going to? How well did she know the people she was with?
The comments I get sent are entirely abusive and condemnatory, yet I do not think my writing is ever offensive to others.
I have been told to kill myself and do the world a favour on several occasions.
I have to ask what has damaged people who are prepared to tell someone they have never met to take their own life?
To the people who send these comments I request that you seek mental health support before you seriously hurt someone and ruin the life of yourself and others.

Ask yourself what makes you send such violent abusive messages?
“If you are considering starting a relationship with someone who has BPD or are in one now, it’s important to educate yourself about the disorder and what to expect.”