My husband is on the autistic aspergeras spectrum!
I have Borderline Personality Disorder!
We really struggle to communicater. We genuinely care about each other but have decided that we cannot continue to live under the same roof.
We have tried so hard but he has a problem with hoarding and I honestly do not get it. I trty to understand but it is beyond me.
“When possessions become disorganized and accumulate around living areas, they are not collections but clutter. Hoarding is when clutter goes beyond just being an inconvenience.
Hoarding behaviors can make rooms in the home completely unusable. For example, a bedroom may not be available for sleep because the homeowner has too many possessions sitting in piles.”
I know I am difficult to live with but with our issues combined life together has become completely un,manageable. It is no-ones fault. We intend to maintain a relation but live apart. We both need our own space.
borderline personality disorder 